If you are like most parents, you think your children spend too much time on the computer. What they are doing online concerns you, as it would any parent. You have surely heard of MySpace, Twitter, and Facebook and may even have a profile on one or all of these social networking sites. Maybe you are a fan, maybe not. The benefit of these sites is enormous—they are a great way to connect to people and exchange information. That much we know. But is that all your children are doing?
A Substitute for Live Communication
Let’s start with the obvious aspect of social networking. It may be a good way to communicate, but it is certainly not a natural one. It is no substitute for meeting people live. Social networking cannot replace going hiking with a group of friends or playing a soccer game. You could accuse me of being old-fashioned. You may be right. What is a fact is that social phobias and problems related to social anxiety have increased exponentially since these sites became so popular. Maybe it is just a coincidence. At any rate, chatting with people on Facebook is not equivalent to real human interaction.
When I was in high school (which was ages ago, obviously—I mean, ICQ was in), I was talking to this girl, and we were laughing and joking, and she gasped and said, “Hahaha LOL” with a little snorting laugh. We had another good laugh at that and decided she was a nerd. Well, the virus has spread.
Additionally:
Excessive digital interaction can reduce the development of essential life skills such as emotional intelligence, conflict resolution, and face-to-face communication. Children who rely heavily on online platforms may struggle with real-world social cues, body language, and empathy over time.
What You Should Be Worried About
I am not going to make the issue of pedophiles and child molesters stalking your kids online part of this post. First of all, because you have already thought of it. Second of all, the Andrei Chikatilo types lurking at train stations have claimed a much higher body count than any Internet stalker, at least so far.
Instruction:
Parents should actively guide children on safe online practices. Set clear rules about sharing personal information, regularly review privacy settings on social platforms, encourage open discussions about online interactions, and ensure children understand that not everyone online is who they claim to be.
A more relevant concern involves fraud and identity theft. Since people are obligated to provide certain details like their email and location when signing up, this gives ample opportunities for identity theft and related crimes. Someone could pretend to be someone else, whom your kids may know or believe they know (a friend of a friend of a friend on MySpace…) and trick them out of their cash—be it their petty allowance or more if you have given them access to a credit card. If they have not seen a person face to face, they have no way of knowing who they really are.
Case Study
Case Study: Rohan Sharma (Delhi)
Rohan, a 15-year-old student, began spending nearly 8–10 hours daily on social networking platforms. His parents noticed declining academic performance and withdrawal from outdoor activities. After setting screen-time limits, encouraging sports participation, and having weekly conversations about online behavior, Rohan’s internet usage reduced significantly within three months, and his social confidence and focus improved noticeably.
Finally, a few words about IAD. Internet Addiction Disorder is on its way to being ranked alongside substance abuse and gambling addiction. It is a major disorder and has a profoundly negative impact on one’s life. Roughly 5–10% of the world population suffers from IAD according to data from the Computer Addiction Study Center at Harvard University’s McLean Hospital. The majority are teenagers. You will recognize problematic use when you see it—that is, if your child starts the day by logging on and goes to bed after logging off.
Conclusion
Social networking is not inherently bad, but uncontrolled usage can affect children’s social development, safety, and mental health. With awareness, parental guidance, and balanced offline activities, parents can help their children use the internet responsibly without letting it replace real-life experiences.
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